TODAY’S AUDITORY-BASED OBSERVATIONAL HIGHLIGHT
At 1:38 PM on California State Route 99, just south of the Elk Grove Area, on SirusXM Satellite Radio, on Shade 45’s (Eminem’s Uncut Hip-Hop Channel-XL) All Out Show, featuring Rude Jude and Lord Sear, we listened to an interview with Jessica Drake (an American pornographic actress, film director, screenwriter, sex educator, and radio personality) about her latest movie Jessica Drake’s Guide To Wicked Sex: Plus Size.
“I think one of the things is Body Confidence. A lot of the times when I talk to guys they tell me I like big chicks, I like curves, I like a big ass on my woman. But women look at their bodies very differently and they don’t have that confidence. So a lot of what’s in Plus Size emphasizes having Body Confidence of your own because you bring that into the bedroom and you have better sex because of it. Another issue that comes up, is that there are different positions that are better for people of size. Being that I’m not a person of size, I needed to bring in someone that was an expert. Kelly Shibari did a great job with it and showcased many different positions. Liberator is a company that donated a lot of their products to the movie. They basically make sex furniture, they have wedges and stuff you can lay on top of.
“Being a woman, I think everybody goes through it at some time. People can be cruel. Also, deep down, people can be insecure about their shortcomings. I think there is a lot of stuff in the media that we should ignore. And I think women should figure out what they like first, and then with their prospective partner, they should figure out what they like. Because not every guy is going to like the same stuff, and not every chick is going to like the same stuff. I tell guys all the time look, just because your last girlfriend liked it, doesnt mean your current partner is going to get off on it. That’s where the communication comes in, you have to know what your partner is into, so you have to ask them, or tell them, or watch a movie. And say do you like that or do you want to try this, or offer to dress up and say what kinda outfit or costume do you want to see me in.”